Depression and anxiety are experiences that many people face at some point in life. Understanding where they come from and how we relate to them can completely change how we heal. This is a personal reflection on depression, anxiety, and how meditation helped transform suffering into understanding.
Understanding Depression Beyond Illness
To overcome depression and anxiety, we must first understand where depression comes from. When we see depression only as an illness, we become passive and powerless. But when we see it as something we may encounter during life, it can become a guide instead of an enemy.
This shift in perspective does not deny medical treatment or professional support. Instead, it adds a deeper layer of understanding and compassion toward ourselves.
Lessons From Nursing and Mental Health Care
Cerina Lim, Meditation Helper (2008–Present)
I have worked as a nurse for over 13 years. During one year, I was assigned to a VIP ward that treated celebrities, politicians, and socially renowned individuals. One patient, in particular, has stayed in my heart.
She was a successful businesswoman with a devoted husband, financial security, and social admiration. From the outside, her life looked perfect. Yet, she was diagnosed with depression.
Every morning, when I greeted her with a smile and handed her medication, she would say, “I wish I could smile like you.” She shared that she felt unbearable pain no hope, no motivation, no passion for life. I found it difficult to understand how someone with “everything” could feel so empty.
Later, I briefly cared for the CEO of a world-renowned company who was also hospitalized for depression. As a young nurse, I couldn’t grasp why even the most successful people could feel deeply lonely and lost.
When Depression Became Personal
Time passed, and eventually, I faced depression myself. I had lived my life believing I was doing well working hard, caring for others, and thinking I was happy. I never imagined depression could happen to me.
When it did, I couldn’t accept it. I lost motivation completely. Everything felt meaningless. Money, family, and stability no longer mattered. I stopped caring about eating, cleaning, or even living. I felt utterly alone in the universe.
With my medical background, I recognized the severity of my condition and knew I needed help.
How Meditation Changed My Relationship With Depression
At that time, I had just begun practicing meditation. Through meditation, I learned to observe my depression instead of fighting it.
My medical training had taught me to see depression strictly as an illness, so I became a patient. But meditation allowed me to see myself differently. I realized I was simply a human being experiencing the human mind.
This understanding brought immediate relief. Anyone could experience depression. I finally felt able to breathe again.
From that moment, I began seeing depression as an honest friend one that was telling me I was struggling, even when I hadn’t realized it myself.
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Learning to Speak to Myself With Compassion
Through meditation, I began talking to myself the way I would speak to a dear friend:
“I see that you’re going through something right now. That’s okay. You don’t have to do anything if you don’t feel like it.”
“What you’re feeling doesn’t mean you’re broken or different. Depression is something that can happen to anyone.”
“This feeling is telling you that you need rest. It’s okay to step back and let others walk ahead for a while.”
“If you don’t feel like washing, laughing, or eating for others, that’s okay too. You’re allowed to simply exist.”
As tears fell, I felt as though the universe itself was comforting me. I realized I wasn’t alone. The sense of isolation I felt was created by my perception, not reality.
Finding Belonging and Inner Stability
There are moments in life when we feel lost because we don’t know where we come from. Those moments can be incredibly lonely.
Meditation helped me accept that struggle is part of being human. Instead of asking, “What’s wrong with me?” I learned to open my heart to others and accept help.
This shift allowed me to relax into life rather than fight it. I became good friends with my own life.
Scientific research also supports meditation’s impact on mental health. The National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH) recognizes mindfulness and meditation as supportive tools for managing depression and anxiety.
Frequently Asked Questions
- Can meditation really help overcome depression and anxiety?
Meditation helps by changing how we relate to our thoughts and emotions. It builds awareness, acceptance, and emotional resilience. - Is meditation a replacement for medical treatment?
No. Meditation complements professional care but should not replace therapy or medical treatment when needed. - How long does it take to feel results from meditation?
Some people feel relief early, while bigger changes come with consistent practice over time. - What if I feel worse when I start meditating?
This can happen as suppressed emotions surface. Guided instruction and support are highly recommended. - Do I need prior experience to start meditation?
Not at all. Beginners can easily learn meditation through structured guidance and introductory classes.
Conclusion: Making Peace With Depression and Anxiety
Meditation taught me that depression and anxiety are not signs of weakness they are signals asking us to slow down, reflect, and care for ourselves more deeply.
When we stop fighting our minds and begin listening, true healing begins.
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